I have a bad reaction to anything that smacks of a rejection or a fail. But if life has taught me anything so far, it is this: 1. Every rejection/fail tells me that it wasn't right for me, not that I wasn't right for it. 2. This will open up space for something that is even better or fitter. 3. To let this temporary setback get to me and push me down is to give up my power. 4. Everything that causes difficult emotions can be channelled in a productive/creative direction. Harness it! 5. My definition of success is very different from the norm. Do not let the norm sway you from what gives your life meaning. 6. It takes courage to believe in yourself and stand your ground even against the high winds. Be proud of yourself. 7. Integrity, authenticity, intellectual honesty... whatever you lose, you win if you do not lose those.

Marcus Aurelius has some inspiration for me:

'The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way.'