'...in another life, I would have really liked just doing laundry
and taxes with you.' ~ From the movie Everything Everywhere All at Once
I haven't seen the movie. And I believe the context of this quote
is very different in the movie. But something about this quote struck me
emotionally from the first time I read it. Sometimes I have chewed on it, as if
something about it is delicious. It may not seem that way—or maybe it does and
I don't know?—that I have a very romantic side to me. It's not probably what
one generally associates with romantic—the very over-the-top, splashy,
shouting-from-the-rooftops sort of thing. No, that's not my thing, nothing
over-the-top or loud about my kind of romantic. Like everything else about me,
it's about the depth. It is probably only visible to the one it is expressed to
in my quaint ways and if they are the kind who also values depth. From this
vantage point, there is something very delicious about the quote. I paint a
story in my own imagination around it which is easy since I haven't seen the
movie. I imagine two people who cannot really unite in this life, but they
sometimes dream about what it would be like, if they could. And that's where
maybe, you the reader, will find it hard to imagine with me. They dream about
what it would be like to do the mundane things together. Like laundry and
taxes. I find that delicious! Not things like going on vacations or having
adventures together. Nothing out of the ordinary. Just the everyday stuff. They
dream about what it would be like doing the most ordinary stuff together in
perfect silence and unspoken harmony. Which hides a lot more passion that any
loud proclamation. That feels so deliciously romantic to me somehow!
posted by Sylvia D'souza at 6:03 pm
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